How to manage your life as a couple? How to have a lasting relationship? What are the mistakes to avoid in a couple?
As a couple, if you want your relationship to last and take place in the best possible conditions, there are things to do and others to avoid. Whether you are a couple or not, the tips that follow will be useful:
Tips for a successful couple life:
Do not be jealous :
Jealousy can become a poison for your couple. There are two kinds of jealousy: light jealousy that is not a problem and deeper jealousy that can have more serious consequences. By “light” jealousy, I mean a little jealousy that does not last, an ephemeral jealousy.
On the other hand, a “deep” jealousy lasts and is reinforced over time … It appears for example when you see your girlfriend spending time with a friend of his class or his work and that you are tired of seeing them pass from time together, even if only for work and this guy is probably in friend zone for a long time … This is an example among many but illustrates that: you start asking questions unnecessarily and you doubt the fidelity of your girlfriend. The mistake that you absolutely must not make in this case is to let this jealousy hang around or to let your girlfriend know that you are jealous by being frustrated.
What you need to do, however, is not to be jealous and to completely fuck yourself. Leave it a minimum free as long as it stays true. If you express your fears, she might think that you do not trust her or that you do not trust yourself. If she really abuses, you can also play jealousy by spending a lot of time with your female friends (which can be useful when you want to win back your ex girlfriend). In short, do not be jealous unnecessarily.
Know how to set limits:
If your girlfriend goes too far, act accordingly. If something is wrong, say so. It is better not to let problems go too fast (the REAL problems, not stupid jealousy stories as we saw just before).
It’s not because you’ve found your soul mate and you’re out of the box that you have to stop being attractive and seducing your girlfriend. Do not let yourself go, play sports and continue to take care of yourself and lead an active life. You would not like your girlfriend to let herself go once she is dressed, for example she dresses in any way and / or starts to get fat. So do not let go.
Do not see yourself too often:
This is especially true at the beginning of the relationship. If you spend 24 hours with your girlfriend you will quickly get tired.
Do not put your friends aside:
As you read right above, do not spend all your time with your girlfriend, keep time for your friends.
Imagine that after a month or more of relationship, it ends … What will your friends think you have abandoned? Friends are of crucial importance, so do not put them aside and spend time with them.
Have a dynamic sex life:
Make love to your girlfriend (I know it sounds obvious) and be both animal and romantic. If you do not make love to her anymore, she might think you do not like her anymore or she does not excite you anymore. If she sees that you are losing interest in her, she may be tempted to go elsewhere …
Have projects in common:
For a lasting relationship, have life plans with your girlfriend, more or less long term. For example, taking a trip, having children, moving in together, doing an activity together, etc. Invest in your relationship.
Managing your life well: conclusion
The important thing for a successful and sustainable couple is to continue to seduce your girlfriend even if you have been in a relationship for a long time. Continue to surprise her. Keep leading an active and exciting life.
One last thing: do not feel obligated to say “I love you” all the time, you do not need it. Acts speak louder than words. Show him that you love him, do not tell him. Acts do not lie. But do not hesitate to say a few sweet words from time to time, it does not hurt;)